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Every
piece of research done on communication has shown
that in face to face communication what the listener
sees contributes more to the message than what is
actually said.
Albert
Mehrabian in his book Silent Messages
determined that up to 55% of the message is received
this way. We need to always be aware that our body
language speaks as loudly – if not more loudly –
than our voice can. And the most important part of
body language – whether in a one-on-one or
‘public speaking’ situation is eye contact.
Don’t
we all know how uncomfortable, even skeptical, we
feel when someone won’t look us in the eye. The
trouble is when communicating for business,
nervousness, anxiety or simply concentrating on the
details at hand can mean that we don’t make eye
contact as much as we should with clients (or
potential clients).
Eye
contact equals credibility - and this is the one
personal quality that a business person can NEVER
compromise...if they want to stay in business!
Making
eye contact frequently reassures the client that we
are open, honest and trustworthy. It gives us
invaluable feedback as to what aspects are really
important to the other person. So, in any
presentation or interview, no matter how much you
may have on your mind, remember your greatest
communication tool – the eyes have it! |